Showing posts with label random. Show all posts
Showing posts with label random. Show all posts

Friday, January 16, 2009

Um, what?

So I just got this really random IM:

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IronedCoho: You know, I'm a Christian and your recent post offended me! What if my children were on? I mean, it's all the rage to be edgy and everything but is it really necessary to use such prejudicing words like the N-word? Grow up and read your Bible.

me: who are you and what the hell are you talking about?

ironedcoho is offline.

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This was an interesting moment for me because, other than the telling fact that I never used the N-word in any post, the truth is that this guy could totally be talking about a post I wrote. So I thought I'd comment on a statement made to somehow make me feel guilty: "What if my children were on?"

First of all, it is not my responsibility to ensure that your children don't see things you don't want them to or to ensure that your children can deal with and understand those things. First there is the the obvious fact that you children WILL inevitably see/hear/experience things that a parent deems inappropriate/wrong/whatever. This works both ways.

Somehow it seems that many people, especially evangelical Christians, seem to think that because they believe what they teach their children to believe and value are categorically right (and apparently are the only ones to believe the things they teach their children) that no one should ever do anything in front of the children that contradicts that. Here's a news flash: If I had children, I would not under any circumstances want them to be exposed to evangelical Christianity and it's beliefs. A good example would be the anti-abortion protesters who, along with their children, stand on the street and hold up "dead fetus" pictures. This is not something I want to see let alone have my children see. And yet, it's "ok" because they believe they are right.

The point is this: what I deem inappropriate and wrong for my (hypothetical) children, you deem inappropriate and right for your children. This leads us to the general conclusion that unless you want to live in a dictatorial, whatever brand of Christianity you subscribe to society then you need to move out of the US or get over yourself and teach your children that other people believe different things.

Conclusion: "What if my children see this?" is not a justification for anything. My answer: then you'll have to have a talk with your children. It's scary I know.


Also, what the hell does being a Christian or reading the bible have to do with using or not using the N-word. I will just briefly bring up another thing that pisses me off: Christians do not, in any reading of history, have any sort of exclusive claim (or arguably any claim at all) to morality or doing what's right.

As a side note, I'm pretty sure this dude doesn't have kids anyway. Based on this post, I think "IronedCoho" is actually this 23 year old pharmacy technician from Corning, NY. What a douche.

Thursday, December 18, 2008

My sister is awesome!


Check out the Obama love over at Mabel Hand Bags:

I ♥ Obama Hand Bag - in blue and in red
Obama Rocks My Socks Hand Bag in blue and in red


I do have to stop myself for a second and appreciate the fact that someone who got upset when my parents and I had political discussions at dinner is now so excited about a politician. I just wish the excitement was about policy and issues and not just his charisma. Either way, the bags are freakin' awesome. Don't you want one?

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

More on Schlafly, Education & Beer

A Wash U professor wrote a very good article about how honoring Phyllis Schlafly & Chris Mathews is indicative of a larger issue: Is the University selling it's soul - a research-oriented, intellectual, scientific award winning soul - to look cool?

Also, of note, according to an alumnus who was a student rep to the Board of Trustees, the suggestion to honor Gloria Steinem was quickly shot down. Apparently, honoring individuals "from all aspects of the political spectrum" doesn't include both sides of the feminist "debate."

As I began writing this post - using only Schlafly's last name in the title, a burning, desparate question occurred to me: Is Schlafly's beer, the best local beer in STL, owned by Shlafly's family and does Phyllis have any say?

The answer is yes - sort of. According the Schlafly's website, Phyllis is the aunt of the owner, Tom Schlafly, and was married to Tom's father's brother. However, she is not involved in the business. Furthermore, it's unclear as to whether Tom even works there: "Tom is a lawyer who tells the people in his law office that he practices law full time; and he tells people in the brewery that he works on the brewery full time. No one in either place is really sure what he does." Funny.

To make things a little better, they give you some sense of their feelings about women:
  • Why don't you guys have Schlafly girls?
  • We do, they're just too classy to dress like tramps and flaunt themselves as sex symbols (anyhow, our beer is so good, we don't need gimmicks to promote it).

So next time I'm in the Lou, I know I can sip on a Schlafly guilt free.

Tuesday, May 6, 2008

The Dead Kennedys, Wash U, & Phyllis Schlafly

I just found out that my dear alma mater - Washington University in St. Louis - will be giving Phyllis Schlafly an honorary doctorate at the upcoming commencement. (Thank you Feministing!)

I can handle the fact that a douche bag like Chris Mathews is giving the Commencement address - especially since I didn't even go to my graduation so I'm not really inclined to be concerned about who graduates and their families have to suffer through - I can even, kind of, handle the fact that they are also giving him an honorary doctorate (I mean, what for?) but Phyllis fucking Schlafly?? Seriously?!?!?

As a response to this outrageous bullshit, I wrote a quick email to Chancellor Wrighton:

Dear Chancellor Wrighton,

I was shocked to learn that Washington University will be honoring Phyllis Schlafly this year. In fact, I double checked to be sure that it wasn't the other Washington, because I just could not understand how an institution that valued me as a community member could be honoring someone who doesn't believe that I have should have full rights as a human being. While I and my fellow students and alumni value diversity of thought, there is a difference between making a space for intellectual discourse across the spectrum and honoring, which in essence condones and validates, a divisive political figure - especially one who are argues against the rights of over half the student body.

I want you to understand that, given this information, I cannot continue to support the University. When donating to my alumnus, I had always assumed that my money would be helping to build an intellectual community of diversity and tolerance. I cannot in good faith continue to support an institution that chooses to honor someone who doesn't believe that I deserve the full rights of a human being.

In the immortal words of Jello Biafra (misogyny issues aside) in the Dead Kennedy's Song "Moral Majority":

Blow it out your ass, Terry Dolan
Blow it out your ass, Phyllis Schlafly
Ram it up your cunt, Anita
Cos God must be dead
If you're alive
God must be dead
If you're alive

Monday, April 28, 2008

Visiting Beantown

As possibly the biggest nerds ever, Adam and I went to Boston this weekend to see Greg Graffin of Bad Religion receive the Lifetime Achievement Award in Cultural Humanism from the Harvard Humanist Chaplaincy (Watch it here; Listen here.). I kid you not.

Up until now I pretty much had a love-hate-but-mostly-hate relationship with Boston mostly informed by my early college years in Western Mass. People were rude, the punk scene was violent, and we could never find any place we were trying to go. Perhaps it's maturity or the fact that I currently live in the densest city in the US or an outgrowing of views I co-opted from friends but Boston was pretty darn good this weekend.

Planning this trip was unnecessarily stressful considering it's 2 day/1 night duration due to the outrageous (and currently beyond budget) price of hotels, the need for a dog-sitter, fear of dying on the chinatown bus but being too cheap to pay double for greyhound, and a general procrastination. Despite all that, it turned out well.

We showed up in Chinatown at the Fung Wah bus stop only to miss the 1pm bus. Fortunately, they run buses every half hour on weekends and as the first in line for the next bus, we got decent seats. Since we (shocker) left far later than planned (Adam and I, not the bus), we arrived in Cambridge with not much time before the event. I had purchased some pick 'n mix chapters from Lonely Planet's Boston guide book and was looking forward to trying one of the local restaurants - too bad everyone else had that idea too. We ended up eating at Lee's Sandwich Shop on Church St., a block or so down from Harvard. It was a fine, greasy diner kind of meal.

After finding the - get this - church(!) where the presentation was to take place ("oh right, it's that big huge steeple over there"), we waited outside with the rest of the motley crew. The crowd seemed to be mostly punk rock kids, the occasional parent, and a few middle age adults. Eventually, they let everyone in and we took our seats in the pews. The whole event was the highlight of the weekend but more on that in another post.

Exhausted, we skipped the waiting for an autograph and headed to the T. We found a relatively cheap Motel 6 ($100/night although it originally was advertised for $75) in Braintree which was conveniently located at the last stop on the Red Line (same line as Harvard/Cambridge). The hotel got some bad reviews on tripadvisor but we found it to be quite adequate. It's no Hilton but it was convenient and possessed the bare minimum (bed, bathroom). Also, it was clearly recently remodeled and there was a Chilli's, Burger King, and Dunkin Donuts (and apparently Dominos delivered) within walking distance in case you didn't eat before heading there. If we were to go again, I may try some of the hostels listed on hostelworld as cheaper, more centrally located alternatives but we might also stay here again.


The next morning we woke up, sleepy and ate a disappointing breakfast from Burger King (McDonald's has , by-far, the best egg food product out there). We then headed to the JFK Presidential Library which was even more disappointing than my Burger King breakfast. While externally grand, the set up inside was awkward and the exhibits kissed butt at best and glossed over reality at worst (Cuban Missle Crisis anyone?). Ah well, at least we saw it.

Next we headed over to Boston Common to walk the Freedom Trail. We followed the red brick strip around Boston common, up to the North End to see Paul Revere's house , and on the Charlestown to see the Bunker Hill Monument (question: How many phallic monuments can one city have?). You can actually walk up all 249 steps to the top of the Bunker Hill Monument but we, having gotten there at the very end up our day, got to step 50 when our legs and knees threw a temper tantrum so we turned back. I bet it's really cool though. The park around it is peaceful and surrounded by lovely brownstones.




Utterly beat, we walked back over the Charlestown bridge to eat in the North End, aka Boston's 'Little Italy.' Again, Lonely Planet steered us to what was likely the best restaurants but also the most crowded. At 4:30pm there was already a line around the corner for Pizzeria Regina so we headed down to Salem St and had some decent (and still better than New York's) pizza at PushCart.

Our stomachs duly satisfied, we set off to catch the bus home. Thinking we would surely miss the 6pm bus, I headed to the bathroom where there was the inevitable line. Fortunately, the bus was not full and after running across the terminal, we ended up getting on the 6pm bus. For whatever reason, bus #2 was less spacious and not as comfortable as bus #1 - plus Adam and I were sitting across the aisle from each other which always leads to the awkward 'trying to get comfortable while not touching the stranger next to you' dance. I watched Juno on my iPod (ps - I always thought this would kind of suck on the First Gen iPod Video but I was sadly mistaken. The video was sharp and I was duly amused for a couple hours. Go Apple.) and then rocked out to The Klopecs.

We got home exhausted and mildly crippled (my left knee still cries in pain when I sit down and stand up) but pleased with our weekend.

ps - I *swear* I saw Anne Hathaway walking her dog by Park St. Church across from Boston common on Sunday. She was wearing sun glasses and walking a dog along with a friend also walking a dog. I really didn't think much of the duo until I heard her voice - she called to one of the dogs named Esmeralda. Being the loser-lover-of-tween-movies that I am (namely the Princess Diaries), I turned instantly and the woman did look just like Anne Hathaway. To prove my hunch, I did a bit of googling and low and behold, Anne Hathaway does have a dog named Esmeralda. Am I a stalker or what?

Friday, April 25, 2008

I'm obsessed #1782.3

So I've become obsessed with Google Reader. It's like blogs! All in one place! Yay!

Seriously though, I've really resisted the reading things online movement (I'm not an early-adopter as they say). Reading on the screen just seemed so bright and uncomfortable - all that scrolling and clicking - ugh. I would occasionally bookmark blogs I'd heard of and check them occasionally for a while and then forget about them. Sure there were feed burners out there but I never really had the impetus to figure it out and investigate.

But then I decided I would try blogging - mostly because I'm on a writing kick. Writing a book is, after all, on my list of things to do in life. Since I couldn't motivate myself to just sit down and write regularly (or ever), I thought blogging might be a good way to get into writing and help me find my way. Of course, being the OCD person that I am, I actually started 4 blogs with mixed success in the writing-regularly department.

Anyway, some how I ended up on Google Reader and it all spiraled from there. I have my feminist blogs (yes, I'm finally reading Feministing) and political blogs and music blogs and tech blogs. Yeah! I feel very informed.

Anyway, that it - Yay Google Reader! :)

Tuesday, September 18, 2007

Manhattan is NOT an island!

actually there is Manhattan Island.

HOWEVER, the New York City borough of Manhattan which is defined by the boundaries of New York County (side note - is New York City the only place where there are multiple counties within the city limits? I think it might be), contains a section that is attached to the mainland, better known as the Bronx.

Marble Hill was once part of Manhattan Island. Then in the late 1800s they decided to redirect the Harlem River and annexed Marble Hill. Later they filled in the real Harlem River and wa-la ... mainland! Apparently there was much dispute over whether is should still be part of Manhattan or should become part of the Bronx. Eventually, it was ruled that it should remain part of the borough of Manhattan although it gets services from the Bronx. I mean, who wants their firefighters coming over suspension bridges? Not the residents of Marble Hill apparently. However, Marble Hill residents received a scathing blow to their manhattanness when it was determined that they had to switch to the 718 area code like Brooklyn, Queens, and Staten Island and could not keep the Manhattan 212. Suckers!

Read it on wikipedia here.

next stop ... long island. what the hell is? and what do people really mean when they say it?

Wednesday, November 29, 2006

crazy idea vol. 1

so i am constantly coming up with ideas for various things that i am in no position to really make happen at this point. mostly they just keep my constantly racing mind from being bored. so here is one ...

compliation cd of songs about reproductive rights.

i know, i know. i'm a dork. but it was all inspired by ... myself. i recently finished a song sorta about my experience escorting at the hope clinic in illinois. it fucking rocks too but that's besides the point.

the comp would not be a bullshit rock against bush (actually i like those cds but ..). i'm talking lyrical content about the subject. perhaps it could spawn into a larger comps for change series but that rips of another idea's name i'll talk about later ...

anyway, i think it'd be cool. prooceeds could benefit orgs like naral, planned parenthood, or better yet, abortion access funds.

so in thinking about writting this post i did a little search for pro-choice songs.

my own first thoughts were these:

operation rescue - bad religion
ani difranco - i wasn't sure which song but i was 100% sure she had at least one song about abortion

and that was pretty much it. but here's a list i've compiled. many of the artists i don't even know and some of the songs i'd forgotten about. so here you go - a list of pro-choice songs about abortions:

bodies - the sex pistols
(who definitley DID NOT invent punk rock and are essentially the backstreet boys of punk but ... that doesn't take away from the fact that they wrote a song about abortion ... although due to this song, some douche listed them on a top 50 list of conservative rock songs which is just a bit wierd and laugable. here's the article if you are interested: http://article.nationalreview.com/?q=NzZkNDU5MmViNzVjNzkzMDE3NzNlN2MyZjRjYTk4YjE=)
EDIT: the song is NOT pro-choice. lyrics here. fucking assholes.

brick - ben folds

the lost woman; birmingham - ani difranco

sally's pigeon - cyndi lauper

9 month blues; the judge's chair - peggy seeger

fight back; why oh why - holly near

behind the wall - try chapman

some boys; the boy/girl rap - alix dobkin

breaking silence - janis ian
(incidentally this is also the name of a character in mean girls ... is it sad that i know that? probably ...)

car with no brakes - erica wheeler

testimony - ferron

will the fetus be aborted? - dead kennedys
(oh jello ... how i love you ...)

what's it like - everlast

mary & child - born against

femme fatale - diggable planets

prodigal daughter - michelle shocked

sister, carry on - carolyn mcdad

* note: some of these were marked as "women's issues" so they might not actually be about abortion ... comment, additions, etc welcome.

Tuesday, November 28, 2006

hooray for me and fuck you ...

yesterday i embarked on a vast journey ... i decided to listen to bad religion's discography in its entirety. well minus 80-85 and all ages cuz that's just repeats. thus far it's going well. i'll keep you posted.

edit #1: Recipe for Hate is an awesome album and "Don't Pray for me" is an amazing song.
edit #2: I don't care what Adam says: Recipe for Hate is great and "Don't Pray ON me" is awesome. so there.

blog post numero uno ...

well here i am ... the girl sadly addicted to myspace stalking unable to fuel her addiction.

boy was i stoked to find out blogger isn't blocked at work! whoa-ho! mindless indulgence here i come ...

now i gotta debug some crap and get some lunch. i'm feeling soupish ... literally.